“Can’t we
get rid of those ugly things?” she constantly asks.
My
oft-repeated reply of, “No. They belonged to my great grand-mother,” is always
met with the question “so?”
So – why do
I keep them? I paused to ponder this very deep question recently. Why should
the fact that these vases once belonged to an ancestor I never met or knew have
enough relevance for me to hang on to these things (which are rather ugly, and
worthless)? Why too do I keep things that once belonged to grandparents and
parents, unable to ever contemplate throwing them away, as if to do so would be
an insult?
My wife
simply thinks I’m a hoarder, and points to the box of old newspapers, my junior
sport medals and folders full of old football cards as evidence.
I guess with
the family heirlooms it’s more of a case of wanting a link to the past. A
heritage. An acknowledgement of those who have come before me, without whom I
wouldn’t exist. Something tangible that connects me to my ancestors.
But the
danger exists for all of us of getting stuck in the past. Nostalgia can get a
powerful hold on us and prevent us moving forward. Many people today get mired
in the hurt, bitterness or grief of past days, and it can be hurtful and harmful.
Or they look so fondly back to the ‘good old days’ that they become rancorous or
defeatist about the present and the future.
In the
Bible, the prophet Isaiah records God as saying, “Forget the former things; do
not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you
not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland.”
A belief
that God is continually at work creating and bringing about new circumstances
and new opportunities and new experiences – ‘new things’- is what gives the
Christian hope and a sense of excitement of what lies ahead in life. It frees
us from the past. We are much easier able to ‘let go’ and just ‘let God’.
We don’t get
dragged down by our past failures or hurts so much, because we know that our
mistakes are forgiven and something new waits just around the corner.
When you
become a follower of Jesus, it’s just like becoming a new person. The past is
the past. And you can leave it there. You can move forward in freedom. The old
is gone. No longer relevant.
But… when it
comes to family heirlooms?
Hmm – the
vases - I think I’ll hang on to them, for a little while longer anyway.
Sorry, dear.
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